The Coterie

The narcissist/psychopath does not work alone. She creates a coterie, a group of people whose job it is to elevate her publicly and privately and to play various roles in her cruel self-serving schemes. Some coteries are temporary, cultivated for a particular...

Should I Work With Narcissistic Clients?

I’m often asked by psychotherapists and coaches whether it’s a good idea to take on narcissistic clients. Unfortunately, there’s no definitive answer. BUT HERE ARE SOME THINGS TO CONSIDER: • Narcissism is a continuum. Your potential client may have many traits, high...

How to Stop Falling In Love With Narcissists

Narcissists and Psychopaths know how to make themselves very attractive to you. And if you have a habit of becoming romantically involved with them, it is very likely indeed YOU know how to make yourself attractive to THEM. Yes, it’s a dance. You are dancing too, but...